Stop the Perfection Paralysis Gremlin with Imperfect Action

Waiting too long causes perfection paralysis

Oh, Boi! When I woke up this morning, I knew it was a great day, but NOTHING could prepare me for this moment.

I am leaping before I look, expecting the net to appear because I must.

I decided to stop waiting. For perfection, that train never came.

Waiting For The ‘Right’ Moment

Many of my personal s/heroes have crossed to the other side as I observe waiting for my (right) moment to share. I have been in prep mode for a long long time now.

I have gained mastery status in my own right because I love to research and attain certifications and accolades in the circles that I adore.

To be fair, the research is low key an obsession of perfection and of being ‘right’.

Under the guise of being busy because I was getting yet another certification: the perfection paralysis gremlin was doing backstrokes in my mind WHILE hiding in plain sight.

I spit prolific, in my head and to my husband (who really doesn’t even want to talk to me until I write a BOOK or something already.)

Yet, who I am uniquely here to serve has NO idea that I exist.

I was in my office doing the most random thing, looking for my favorite pen to write, I pulled an angel card, which I hadn’t done in weeks.

Tears welled up in my eyes because I had just realized some truth about me 10 minutes before and Source was talking to me through this card.

I Wax Prolific In My Head Remaining My Best Kept Secret.

Fonda Clayton

Now Is The Only Time That Counts

Then, I realized that this IS the moment to launch my work, all public like.

NOW is the time that I have been waiting for. So before, I get to into my head and hear the sound a large truck makes when it is in reverse (boob boob boob) (insert: I become possessed by the perfection paralysis monster): here is the platform that is truly me.

She is not perfect, she is not complete, she is a little undone AND I really like her.

Requiring perfection limits joy

It’s Not Perfect But It Is Go Time

HTTPS://EMBODY5D.COM (well you are already here…) Please bear with me as I set things up in the back of the house however AND by doing this public display of exposure, I will get er done and do my work.

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Fonda Clayton is the founder of 5D Self Mastery, a community based platform for those who are ready to own their sovereignty and embody their Sacred Wholeness. She helps women recognize that splitting themselves into pieces and parts of themselves is disempowering and will always have them looking outside of the self for validation. Fonda is a Certified Life Coach, Polarity Therapist, Licensed Massage Therapist, published author, podcaster and Mother of Personal Freedom.

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